In this blog I will answer some questions about dance floor game from a seducer from Europe goes by the name of Impulse, hopefully you guys that go out to clubs have encounter similar situations and can relate. In my book I also cover a lot of real life scenarios from all type of beginners and players towards the end of the book.
Impulse: “Last night I noticed 2 semi-horny smoking hot 9s in the middle of the dancefloor…I wasn’t sure how to play it as they were in a dancy mood. Plus almost the whole club was dancing last night so itd be uncalibrated to not dance as well”
My answer: If the girls are dancing and you open talking you will bring down the energy or take the energy away, therefore is better and higher probability of success to open dancing.
Impulse: “To get dancing with a random chick on the dancefloor, what is the best way to approach this? Do I have to make eye contact with them first before going in?”
My answer: I usually open indirect like ‘oppps! i just happen to be there and we end up dancing or I throw an approach invite could be me dancing or me pointing or me doing something to get a reaction, the reaction i am looking is the ABSENCE of fuck off body language, if the reaction is positive or neutral i go in… example of fuck off body language are stopping the dance when i approach, hugging the girl, giving me the back etc…
Impulse: “after the eye contact I take her hand and then start with some moves”
My answer: I do not take the hand since she can pull it and if she does everybody can see the rejection, plus low probability of success for me, the exception is Latin music or Latin beats (for example Justin Beaver song sorry has Latin type beats)
Impulse: “Or is it best to go in without eye contact? Ie if you are vibing with the club/area you just go with the vibe and it becomes natural to get in there?”
My answer: I personally do not do eye contact to force an approach invite in dance floor game, I use more the vibing, gestures and dance moves.
Impulse: “Should I be in her vicinity to begin with so she notices me before opening (ie dance in her area to start off with before she feels comfortable dancing with me) ?”
My answer: ^ this is another type of approach used by good dancers it works, but it is just too slow, i do this at the beginning of the night, the problem is if the girl or group see you for too long kills the newness so you become “Old furniture” it kills a bit the curiosity, but it does work too.
Impulse: “Also I’d prefer to stick to groups of 2/3 max…there were big groups of 6-7 girls all huddled together dancing and didn’t really see a way in to those..but that 2 were up for it (I noticed a tongue wag from one too) and easily in the top 5% of hot chicks in that club”
My answer: A girl by herself is best (unusual specially if she is hot), 3 sets with a guy involved and one girl kind of left out as a third wheel second best, third best is 2 girls, then 3 girls, a large group is not that efficient. But, if there is a large group it eventually will break or the group will get distracted, I look for a break or distraction then I open (divide and conquer)…
Impulse: “Are there any video demonstrations or a step by step ideally of how to go about this as i dont see anything about this concretely??….not sure how to play it exactly”
My answer: I have some stuff in my channel, but all clubs different, all countries different, but if you get the fundamentals it should work everywhere, cause when i travel i have no problems…
Impulse: I know skills is the man for this type of stuff
My answer: Thanks! ( note to self, fuck my life, why did i answered like a phaggot, I should have said “of course skills is the name of the mothefucking game”)
Impulse: Again, this isnt really my style of game but the whole club was in a dancy mood last night so that was the only way i was going to get in..plus the hot chicks seemed to me as low hanging fruit
My answer: If you do night game is a good tool, actually one of the best tools if done right…
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