How to cheat like a pro, the “monogamy” model (forbidden seduction series)

cheatingmodelDark/Forbidden seduction is a series of advance and borderline morally questionable topics, such as seducing a married womenthe October man sequence,  swinger club game,pimp game,my how to get a girlfriend and never having dry spells , hustle game etc…

Special note to the women I am dating or have dated.- This blog is a biz were i teach all types of seductions and cover all types of topics, cause i am talking about cheating does not mean i am cheating or plan to cheat on you. If i talk about killing does not mean I have killed or plan to kill somebody, get me.

Disclaimer: not a moral post and cheating can cause the following consequences:
99% chance of getting caught no matter what, drama, pain (physical and emotional), monetary loss, shame,property damage, death etc…*Kendra video and Oj Simpson example.

Also there are better models such as real monogamy(most real monogamy is bullshit, specially after 2-3 years there is cheating involve by one or the other), Open long term relationships, Multiple long term relationships, Friends with benefits… But in my experience most players in real life do what i will describe.

 

“Monogamy” – When the word “monogamous” or “monogamy” is used in quotes, that refers to relationships that are supposed to be monogamous, and might look monogamous to the outside world, but really aren’t. There’s cheating going on, by at least one partner. “Monogamy” also refers to relationships where one or both parties promise monogamy, but deep down have no intention of keeping that promise. “Monogamous” relationships are extremely common, and in terms of non-married relationships, are almost the norm in the modern era, particularly among younger people. “Monogamous” relationships are prone to extreme drama, for obvious reasons.
credit.- Blackdragon

 

 

I get ask privately A LOT, about cheating and stuff like that, and what to do in situations when you get caught etc…

Blackdragon is right about a lot of stuff when it comes to marriages, most of the people that think they are doing monogamy in the real world are really in some type of fucked up open long term relationship(one or the other or both cheat on the side). I am talking new generations and one of the top causes of divorce, tops finances based on statistics. This is specially true for guys that are high sex drive player types.

Ok so, i am going to show you ways that i have used to minimize the chances of getting caught, and what to do if you get caught…(fuck off if you do not like the term getting caught)

1.- The most important thing is to go into a long term  mono relationship the right way this is SUPER important. The best situation is to have a rotation of women that are competing for you through the rotation and then she wins you over. This is the best frame but a lot of guys do not have a rotation, you can still get away with a good frame if at the beginning she is emotionally more invested in you.

2.- There has to be the early frame that you have days, or nights during the week when you do a hobby, activity, guys night out etc… For example my frame is that my hobby is dancing, so on the weekends I get to go dancing since is my hobby, same with capoeira, gymnastics etc… Now here is the caveat, a lot of dudes start with similar frames, but they fuck it up with the “consistency”. Let me make an analogy, let say you have a fuck buddy, that you see and fuck once a week, then all of a sudden you take her out to dinner twice a week, you just confused her and fucked up the frame. Well, the same happens in a relationship, for example I go out every weekend on Fridays and Saturdays, if i stop doing that and during those times, I instead take my main to dinner, I just fucked up the frame and send signals, and 100% likely i will get drama.

3.- The phone, the phone and Social Media are your biggest enemies and the #1 reason dudes get caught, let me repeat this cause is super super important YOUR PHONE IS YOUR NUMBER 1 ENEMY. SOCIAL MEDIA IS YOUR NUMBER 2 ENEMY. So how we can get around that, well this is super difficult cause if you lock your phone is red flags to some women(I fucked up this frame by not locking my phone from day one, so if i lock it now it will send red flags get me), so what you need to do is TO NEVER GIVE OUT YOUR PHONE OR SOCIAL MEDIA. I never give out my real name(not even puas who met me in person know who i am), anyways keep your life a mystery. So skills how you talk to women if you are so big on texting/sexting and you claim you fuck a lot of women? Well good question, the answer is for the 100th time GOOGLE VOICE, that is the shit (all of my lay and field reports are copy and paste google voice, does not get more real than that, to my knowledge I am the only dude doing live unedited lay and field reports). Now I learned from all the fucked up drama that i got about 10 years or so ago, from myspace, so now Facebook, I am doing well. But do not fucking give Facebook or your real identity to new women, you will get caught, some women even make fake profiles to get info. from your girl or to fuck with you(some psycho did that shit to me).

4.- Oh well, yes there are people this fucking dumb but i got a mention this obvious one. DO NOT FUCK WOMEN IN THE CRIB YOU SHARE WITH YOUR GIRL NO MATTER WHAT. I do not care if she works out of town for 5 days, i do not care if she works 10 hours away, neve eve eve ever fuck a girl in a place were you live together. Suicide!(well look what happened with oj simpson).  So how do we get around this one: motels or her place or ______.

A technique to use to fuck in motels is to make it not a big deal, just frame the motel as your apartment, i tell them trolling i will take her to my apt. and then i take them to a motel, i say let me talk to my parents(pay the motel people while she waits in the car), they know was sup, take her to a motel and joke around “do you like my apartment” etc… I talk about this in this video.

5.- Another obvious shit but guys are too dumb.- Do not mess around in places were people that know your girl and know you are her man go. One of the many reasons i am against social circle type game.

6.- Accessories:

  • Febreze (odor spray).- kill odors fast. This is specially important for me, since i fuck a lot of women in the car from the clubs.

 

  • Extra set of clothes.- the clothes you used try to have them done in a dry cleaner next day, sometimes, hairs, lipstick, perfume will be there.(my girls do my laundry)

 

  • Shower after

 

  • Alcohol.- when you go raw with a girl if you were to fuck another girl, may give that other girl yeast, bacterial infection etc… To avoid this you need to spray alcohol on your dick, the way i do it is i have a spray battle fill with alcohol and i spray it in my dick aka skills junior.(credit my former wing cash)  Update.- I found a better way by using hydrogen peroxide you can get this at any supermarket for less than a $1, the reason is alcohol gives you burning sensation hydrogen peroxide does not, also if you are not circumcised  it helps with hygiene a lot….


7.-  If you live alone.- when going to your house with a girl, make sure you complicate the way to get to your house in a way the girl does not remember where it is, this is helpful with some of the psychos.

8.-  Do not be using the phone or texting with your main often. My ex main knew I never picked up the phone or text back, and is a mission to get in contact with me. This is a very good frame that will be help full, the busy business dude.

9.-  Do not partner ever, with women for cover ups specially on the phone or printed media. *Kendra video. 

10.-  Do not trust women to stay quiet ever, and be loyal and not talk. Women will back stab you, specially when they know they will not be number one. *Kendra video.

11.-  Keeping condoms in the car or a bag, or keeping digital photos of a girl in your mobile phone. ” – ok in the wallet or in places were the condoms can be found, i hide my condoms in the trunk of the car. I never take or keep pics of girls on the phone i have them “email” them to me. (credit dateathome)

12.- Reacting to things and getting angry about things in the house may cause suspicions in the experienced eye.” .- exactly i cover this point in going into “nice guy” mode or “long explanations”.(credit dateathome)

13.-  When you are married neglecting things and keeping yourself isolated in the room may cause suspicions.” – I never really had this issue…But i had problems doing-Sudden covering up type moves and getting, weird, unusual behaviors when she walks into a room were i thought i was alone…(credit dateathome)

I still favor the open long term relationship type model (which is very similar to the cheating model, but the girl does not get to fuck the other dudes “theoretically” of course she may, and probably she will) but when i follow for example bd and what happened to him with his 5 year mltr(the asian one), i still weighting pros and cons, favoring the cheating model with a twist, I will explain:


I still favor no the cheating model per se… But the SUPER PLAYER, you got your prize, cheating model frame (I am a player you are #1, but on the down low lets not talk about it look the other way, and do not dig type model while you are mono, or pretend momo, you are more than free to be sexual and be a whore if you want to, that is ok with me i will not control your dynamics).

Again I will narrow down why the cheating model fails.

1.- Girl is not happy or put number 1 vs other girls.(most of the time when you get caught this is why they give you drama and all they care about is being number 1 and reassurance you will not leave them)

2.- Dude fucks up with the dynamics on the girls on the side, letting them believe she has a chance (tubs video best shit i have seen explaining this). This is were a lot of the “verbal/suave naturals fuck up aka a lot of the black players.

3.- Too much overcompensation when caught which translate into i did it. Players overcompensate and go into the “typical nice guy”behavior and is repulsive to the girl and will push her away more.

4.- Avoiding the uncomfortable conversation when you get caught. If you get caught and you will, you have to sit down, and put a poker face, and deny, no matter what, do not go into a long fucking story, cause if she ask again you will forget and/or change the story 50 times. *dane cook video…

5.- Deny deny deny admit= horrible vs deny deny deny and deny. No matter what bs story you create, she will believe it, cause is easier for her too.*

* more on that Dane Cook video.

6.- Dictatorship = you can not do this you can not do that, you got a be a Madonna. 

7.- Getting comfortable, and not managing her, like lovergirl says, she still has to be investing, encourage to invest, and you have to make her some what happy. If she is not happy or somewhat happy this model dyes a quick death.

8.- Paranoia, I am a player cheating let me project onto you and go all paranoid on you, micromanaging the girl… This is horrible and stressful. *dane cook video

9.- Guys totally become beta and take the female role.

10.- lack of polarization. Again men, becoming yes man, being, needy and taking a female role, while she takes the masculine role… Best example is Kendra the former playboy girl when caught her hubby, the dude became a little bitch, and she is practically a dude

*Dane Cook Video on cheating:

* Kendra video on cover up partnerships:

 

 

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