Social Media and why I believe is bad for seduction

facebookDisclaimer. I know plenty of guys that get laid via Facebook, Instagram, snapchat… But this is my take and my opinion, based on my experiences…

Lets start with a post by a seducer name habanero (mltr means side girl,fb means fuck buddy and oltr means main girl):

 

“I have a high-end MLTR* (currently under strong consideration for OLTR*) who I’ll call Kaley. I also have a low-end MLTR who I’ll call April. Recently I went out on a date with April, and she took the opportunity to snap a selfie with me in it. Later, I found out that she made said selfie her profile image on Facebook.

A little while later, Kaley went on my Facebook page to find out when my birthday was, and of course, as she was scrolling past my Friends list, she saw the picture of me smiling next to another girl. This upset her. Now, I’m already past The Talk with both girls, and they’ve both agreed to non-monogamy, but expectations are higher with Kaley because the L-word has been used. So she came to me about it and I had to reassure her that everything was still the same between us. Fortunately, she’s a SUPER low-drama girl, and I was able to smooth things over quickly and easily.

Ultimately, it seems there will be no major consequences here, but it concerns me that there could have been. So I want to ask: what’s the right want to handle my social media accounts with multiple MLTRs? Obviously it’s a bad thing to have MLTRs be exposed to one another, but I feel like my control over these types of situations is limited at best. I don’t want to say to April, “Hey, don’t put me in your profile pic.” Maybe if she was an FB that’d be acceptable, but she isn’t. So I don’t really know what to do here.”

 

Here is Justin Bieber:

 

 

So Justin Bieber, recently ended up putting his Instagram private, after all the drama he was getting for his new girlfriend, especially by his ex Selena Gomez…

For those of you who don’t know Who Justing Bieber is, I will give you a mini bio. In a nutshell Justin Bieber is a good looking pop singer, with tons of status, Money and women in their prime lusting and fingering to his pics.

The dude could not take the drama, just lol, this is a dude that probably has a team of public relations experts handling his every move and social media… And, even him could not handle that shit!.

Here is from Girls Chase Blog on the article “I don’t chase them I replace them”:

Refusing to stay on Facebook when the only value it provides to your life is addictive, obsessive checking on other people’s pseudo-lives (i.e., all you really know about them is the stuff they’re letting you know on there… you’re not getting a realistic picture into their lives, nor do you have any idea all the things they don’t want everybody else to know). Close your account, and if you’re too tempted to reopen, delete all your pictures, defriend all your friends, and then remove it.

After the break up with my ex main, the  first thing I did was delete and block her and delete all the friends and family we have in common, and I stopped checking her Facebook…Of course some drama people, kept telling me about her pics (mostly Photoshop, just lol) and her silly “positive quotes”.  My point is that the article describe her and most Facebook people to a t. (when we were dating she barely posted in Facebook, cause she knew I hated that shit)

Anyways, I will tell you with examples of my own life why I advice seducers to keep away from: Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, twitter and the rest of the attention whoring shit…

#1.- Our bread and butter is COLD APPROACH PICK UP (from meet to lay TOTAL STRANGERS) and/or Online game (for those of you that get laid online).- Now in both cases “LESS IS MORE”. In other words, you want to keep your life as a MYSTERY, and let the women fantasize in their head and create their own IDEAL definition of the guy she is with. For example, my new main in probation thought “I am this super good looking sweet hot guy that all women want, and she is super lucky to be with me”… Now that I have fucked her multiple times and she is super invested, she realizes that I am a dick and there are tons of things she dislikes about me, but again too late, she is hooked and addicted. She made her own opinion of me HERSELF, no I never sold myself as this sweet, fantastic guy of her dreams, even in the “tales from the club” I make fun of myself and her opinion of me, but my point is, she created me in her reality of the ideal guy.

#2.- Drama. Again if we have multiple women after the phone, this is the second fastest method of women knowing about other women you are seeing as I explain in this blog post.

#3.- It takes too much time and effort that distract you form your FOCUS. Not only the time spend in Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat affects your mission and professional life, but it also fucks with your actual pick up. Let me elaborate, after my break up I put an Instagram account(by the way for pipi in vagina Instagram and snapchat superior to Facebook). I went to the clubs with my cheap ass shitty phone to take pics so I can post on Instagram, that shit cause me to fuck up with my fundamentals on club game instead of picking up women I was trying to fucking take selfies like a faggot, since I was looking at my Instagram, trying to take the right pics etc… Worst, is that I never carry my cell, by me carrying my cell I butt dial a bunch of people including my Mom and my ex, fuck my life (the last 2 people on earth i wish to butt dial).

#4.- This is redundant, but Facebook is bullshit!. The most popular Facebook people I know are dudes that don’t really get laid, beta boys… Now if you look at my Facebook, you would think I am an incel that has never gotten laid in his life. I change my profile pic maybe once a year, and I  do not engage with ANY community people, and for me to approve anybody as a friend is harder than to get my social security info.

#5.- Facebook, Instagram and the likes give your girls access to the other girls you don’t want them to know about… So, your fuck buddy knows everything about your other fuck buddy, and your other fuck buddy knows everything about your main etc… I had once a psycho create a fake Myspace profile trying to seduce one of the girls in my rotation, just lol…(so she can have a “gotcha moment” so I can get rid of the competition and she stay the only fuck buddy)

With that being said if you do social circle game, Facebook, Instagram and snapchat are the shit, you can become a mini celebrity if you do it right, but again, we don’t give a fuck about that shit, our bread and butter is cold approach, quick reminder on why we do not do social circle here.

The second big advantage is that you can seduce by causing “a bidding war”. I actually did this once (but it caused tons of drama), so let me tell you how you can do this. Back in the days when “Myspace” was Facebook, I had girls posting on my wall saying sweet shit! but it was them competing with each other, it did help me with my seductions (but the drama and stress not worth it).

The third big advantage is that if a girl private messages you first in Facebook, Instagram or write stuff like “shit looking good”, you know you probably can fuck her. I put 4 ridiculous pics on Instagram and I got private messages and a following from so much hot pussy (of course some are fake, but still it goes down on the dm)…

In conclusion, keep your life as a mystery and minimize or eliminate the access women have to you… A good way is never to give your full name or real name, another trick is to keep people in “pending status” for ever, and of course make your profile private.

Out!

 

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