The ugly truth of average dudes and many former players

I can never understand the life of many average dudes and even former seducers/players:

Step 1: Meet a girl

Step 2: Quit everything in your life she does not approve of.

Step 3: Get married

Step 4: Get out of shape and betazized.

Step 5: Have kids.

Step 6: If you are not sexless and divorce yet, paying a nice child support check, give up on your dreams and work on a cubical for the next 40 years of your life.

Step 7: Die.