Guys please check my approach to getting laid online before reading this blog.
Here is a continuation and update of that blog with some minor differences of traditional online sites (pof, okkupid, match.com etc…) vs. online cell phone applications (bumble/tinder).
I do not spam or mass swipe either, I usually do this when I am driving (stop light), waiting on line at chiplote etc… So it does not affect my cold approach/clubbing.
I also recommend guys deep into night game to use online vs day game due to waking up late…. Or combine day game with online and maybe ditch night game as a time management tool.
Why I am writing this?
Well my brand new wing/student got laid basically on his first tinder match so I got an ego boost…. He basically copy my dialogs in this tales from online game..(will post evidence of course, you know me, and the girl is pretty hot, though not my type)
Step 1.- Force an approach invite (optional and not needed)
You will force and approach invite for traditional sites, obviously you can not do this in tinder/bumble… So this means you go see a girl, wait for her to see you, or you do meet me or match feature or the likes…
In tinder/bumble dahhhh is obviously not needed cause you match with each other.
Step 2.- Open
You will open there are a million openers, but find one that is not lame and sorry and try hard. I do not recommend ” you look like trouble” for traditional sites…
But that is my opinion. Here are the ones I use:
Hey _____(her name), I hoped we matched! I am Skills!
You seem different from the other girls here… I am Skills!
I read your profile and we would never get along 🙁 Cause we would have too much fun together 🙂 I am skills!
Step 3.- Make her qualify
If she responds to your opener… you will say something, and then you will say:
blah blah ready for your test! and here you will right away ask a qualifying question….
Start with an easy one… How happy are you in your life from 1 to 10? 10 being best
and then after she answers blah blah second question, What are your 2 best qualities that have nothing to do with your looks?
Step 4.- Make her feel that she qualified
Her name, you are safe enough i am super busy and hardly ever here, you seem interesting and someone worth getting to know… Text me here (give a google voice number, or wasap or whatever DESKTOP texting system and fake number you give, i recommend google voice), if i do not text you right away is not cause i am too cool for school or not interested but because i am with clients..
step 5.- Banter and sexualize following my suggestions here, if she is not biting or contributing, cut it and pitch a meet…. How does your schedule looks like? and pitch a meet and greet low key/low pressure encounter such as coffee shop… Even if she is down to fuck, sometimes even if they are super down you are better off playing it like that.
“let me know were you are coming from to give you directions” always control the meet place, DO NOT LEAVE IT UP THE HER… ALWAYS LEAD AND HAVE A PLAN, BE DECISIVE, she is gauging all that shit….
step 6.- 3 bounce method.
the 3 bounce method is explained here
Pictures:
They have to show your face, if decent body show with doing and activity (me shirtless doing capoeira), dress nice, one with animal is good(some girls open talking about your animal)… 1 pic or 3 pics, pics super super important i do not recommend professional but more like a newer good camara phone photo such as I phone or Samsung (I have an s8).
Here is my wing/student lay report and STRUCTURE OF WHAT I AM SAYING HERE….He sounds like me, cause he copied and pasted my tales from the club behind my back, I had no idea, but I was given him tips through the process (such as the massage which is how he banged her):
Tinder captures (click on the links):
SMS
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https://ibb.co/niAtvy
My sister suppose to come over from Miami this afternoon so I was thinking about to do something w/ the Canadian and then bring her to a motel and fuck her. Fortunately for both this afternoon was rainy so badly that my sister preferred to stay in Miami and come to my house Saturday morning. So my house was available
We spent the afternoon together, watch a movie, offer a drink, and when she was comfortable I gave her a sensual massage and the rest I kept for me niggas
^ (trying to talk like me face palm)
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So many texting mistakes like sooooooo many but still got laid such as:
1. lack of leading
2.- a bit of ass kissing
3.- not being decisive.
4.- copying my stuff totally out of context
Troubleshooting:
I have seen people making mistakes via pm, the biggest mistake is that they do not add commentary and sound robotic…
example of a bad exchange:
How happy are you in your life from 1 to 10
she goes: 8
then the dude goes: “oh that is high and then goes into tell me 2 things about you that have nothing to do with your looks….
^ see all that is bad and robotic vs me:
8
me: that is because you have not meet me yet, once you meet me is going to go to 10, but i am glad is 8 anything less than 8 is a red flag to me cause they are expecting usually the guy to supply their happiness… anyways, what are your 2 best qualities that have nothing to do with your looks???
My point is that the biggest mistake is not adding personality or commentary to the structure post question answer…
Again it will sound robotic and just like another idiotic wanna be amateur seducer.
Out!
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