One of the biggest problems in clubs specially with hot women is that she will be with a dude or some dudes.
The typical reaction from most men is to get intimidated and not pursue the girl. The problem is that most of the time the dude is an orbiter, friend zone,platonic friend, gay friend or a family member in other words the girl may be fair play.
With that being said we got a be careful, the biggest so called shit test that women usually give in clubs is over extensions/approach invites signaling she is down to fuck, in some cases she will become super aggressive with the eye contact, body movements, even verbals for you to fall into a trap.
So what is my point? most of the time she is doing this to get the dude she is dating jealous. It could be a guy she really likes, boyfriend, husband etc… In fact this causes conservatively 90% of fights in clubs.
So these are some stuff that has worked for me in the past:
1.- During the interaction just ask her: Who are you here with? if she mention a dude/s Follow with: Cool! how do you guys know each other?
2.- If I am dancing with a girl very sensual (which is the way all of you should be dancing) I would say: “Listen, I do not want to disrespect anybody, that dude you are with is looking over here, are you guys together?” If she is into you she will oversell how there is nothing going on, after you can joke around that you do not want to get your ask kicked if you make out with her etc… (see how I took the opportunity to escalate verbally)
3.- Befriend the guy/s briefly and feel out the vibe. The none verbal interactions between her and the guys, will give you a clue of what is going on.
4.- Isolate or mini bubble.- Take the girl out of sight of the dudes, or if you are dancing place her in a way that she is giving the back to the dude/s. Cause even if she is not into you, she does not want to feel like a slut in front of the other dudes.
5.- Eject, if you notice the girl is just tooling you to fuck with some dude, get the fuck out asap. Remember our club time is valuable you do not want to waste time with a girl is not down, club time is our biggest asset.
Disclaimer.- There have been cases were I have been with a girl in the club with the husband there, and she pretty much lets me do everything, the dude is usually a cuckhold and he gets off on other dudes doing shit with the wife.
Out!
“club time is our biggest asset”
that’s gangster bro, good job Skills. Cheers to the start of Summer
hehe! thanks dude!
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