Hey guys new video, please like and subscribe. Topics covered:
– Why you should not approach from behind in cold approach and/or when dancing, what to do instead for a higher yield approach and in what cases (music types and ages) is ok to approach from behind.
– Mental attitude and frame post a rejection. How the best seducers have extreme high self esteem, big egos and they are narcisists.
– Why you should not self reject and screen yourself out instead you need the girl to be the one that screen you out. In other word don’t speculate and speculate on your chances against other guys no matter if the dude is Magic fox, The rock, Brad Pitt or any male model.
– Why some girls think I look better than Brad Pitt, my example of self speculation.
– Why you should not speculate on sets that are mix assuming that the guy is with the girl romantically.
– The right level of energy in dance floor game, why too much high energy is bad as well as too low energy.
– The dance floor bubble and the right level of physical escalation and self control.
– Please NOTICED how I talk to girl on the dance floor, my VOICE INFLECTION AND TONE.
– How I finger and eat girls out on the dance floor without touching her vagina.
Who/what would recommend for modern fundamentals of verbal game/outer skills or socal skills with girls. I see next to no one really teaching it at a fundamental level, closest would be maybe todd, but even he is to complex and does not really teach social skills in realm of what to say.(except some cold reads or teases but not really entire convos or structures. Particularly what to say after you open Like say x here, do x here, when she says x do x, that sort of shit. Most of the stuff that is taught is somewhat vague and esoteric, not really practical. And going out does not seem to help me much. Alot of guys like to say that you learn to think on your feet improv the more you approach but i tend to disagree, at least for me. The more I go out its like im banging my head the wall, little results to show for it. I dont even have ten cold approach lays yet. I generally to i revert interview mode shit alot,and convos stall out really quick. Lot of bad advice out there like “its all sub-communication” “its not what you say but how you say it”
I was watching RSD juliens pimp(before he turned into some knock off tony robbins cult leader.) And is verbal structure was all interview mode shit with different subcomms added to the tone of voice with breaking rapport tonality, fun, commanding etc along with adding a push pull every now and then. Does fuck all when it come to implementing it. I swear RSD is trolls there student with a barrage of bad info just so you can sell you on new theories so you buy there next product to their never ending line up 30 products they now have. (good thing I torrent all the shit, its all overpriced garbage.)
When its quite evident to me that the content if just as important and the confidence being projected behind it. Im fucking aspie as shit.
And no Im not one of those negative incel types on lookism.(they do Have some good shit though on looksmaxing, and hilarious posts ). I tend to take the good from everyone ( or atleast try to) be the game or anti-game/psl/lookism community. There is no black and white obviously and they both Have good insights. Obviously Looks matter a fuck ton but so do your social/seduction skills, which is the part the anti game community seems to deny, like GLL,sleazy,strength by sonny etc… I made an account On Glls forum and made a post not to long ago about game mattering and I even posted my pics to prove the mod im a decent looking guy. I got bashed to all hell and banned, They knew i was right to, cause the mod was raging. They give such shit advice on there now, Especially since chris left and that got that new mod Bad idea bear Who bans any sort of talking on the topic of “game” even if if it makes valid points.I argued that their user base was the perfect example of lack of social skills being a big problem, if you looks at alot of the guys there they have to approach 100-200 chicks to get a 1-2 LAYS using basic buy game (which pretty much what i use.) evidence by their approach logs. They gave me shit advice saying ” oh well your not hitting on enough chicks/need to lookmax even more” and ” it has nothing to do with your seduction/social skills.” Even though I mentioned approach almost 1,000 chicks(after getting my approach anxiety handled, dont really count the ones before.) with 6 fucking lays to show for it. Place has really gone to shit.
Also sonny seems worthless In term of actual technical advice, He only give decent common generic advice. I asked him his thoughts and he gave me the same spiel
https://strengthbysonny.com/2018/11/13/sonny-arvado-game-how-to-get-girls-part-iii/
If scroll down all the way to the bottom of the article you will see my comment regarding me being INTJ personality type(aka overly logical).
Here is the comment by me:
“how the fuck do you have and actual convo/good technical verbal game.?IM so fucking apsie. The interview mode questions dont seem to be cutting it, the chick lose interest real quick. Its not like im getting better from reference experience or practice and im above average looking in my appearance. Your very anti game but being witty and funny all that gamey shit seem to actually matter. alteast from alot of infields that i see.(the real ones anyways, I know theres alot of fake shit.) It cant be all image and looks or just simply going for it.No body really cover social skills at a real micro level. Like say this here, do this. Im am a INTJ personality, Aka overly logical. I need a nuts and bolts sort of approach or verbal structure. Like say this, here do this here. I realize conversation is dynamic but that also the crux of why its so hard to learn. Simply just talking/to chicks /goinf for it aint enough. Aleast for me it aint. Any thoughts on this?
His response:
“Depends on how you look. If you don’t look good, that’s the root of all your problems”
He give me the same old “but muh looks bro ” advice.”
It was repsonse to his verbals, because the article is basically his entire daygmae/nightgame method and he uses the same boring small talk shit. Who know maybe it because he is a 6’2 goodlooking roid monkey and he can get away with it. though i dont really trust him much since he is friends with that obvious lying scammer jmulv who seems like a sociopath that shits on every one in the seduction community that not him. doubt that someone that looks like a crusty nut suck combined with squid wards nose and the charisma of a potato has bang that many. He claims to have the best adivce(its awful and vague) in the game and say guys that buy his product get good overnight. Im mean jesus I have you seen the fuckers infields, he is more boring than me and somehow claims to have slept with 1,000 women. My ass.
The juice almost does not seem worth squeeze. I know at a fundamental Level Im an extreme hardcase with aspie tier social skills. Mostly due to being raised by a single mother and being sheltered in social isolation. who knows maybe i have some sort of un -diagnosed austim. Im just not NT.
For the record im an above average looking guy, I would Im a strong 6.5/10 maybe even a 7 and it great shape, Im not super tall but not short either ,5’9.I am semi jacked/low bodyfat and have solid style that highlights my physique. Pretty much reached my at my genetic potential at he moment.Though i have recently implemented mewing.
Jesus sorry for this long rant, just wanted to make the post detailed.
sorry for the late response….. yes most youtubers and most content now a days including todd is useless.. opening is no that important as long as is not too direct, situational works best then a bit indirect, not to be used with opinion opener…
What you do or say after the opener is key so you have to talk a bit post opener, till reaching the hook point… This will vary on person to person, but bottom line is you need to talk in a way to convey personality….
Then you kind of disqualify yourself (this is optional but works)
then you ask her couple of question for her to qualify herself a bit…
then you flirt, or show interest, escalate, get compliance…
close with number, social medio, or pull….
right now the best guys are not public but in forums all the dudes you mention won’t help…. If you want practice second generation verbals for struccture
Also I have tried canned mystery method style routines aswell( i tried Like 15 approaches with that shit.) and they seem to creep chick the fuck out, I come off as some metro/homoesexual dancing monkey faggot. they can sense incongruity and fakeness. Obviously it very outdated pick up tech, so one teaches that. The big thing though is social/ verbal skills are not taught at a very MIRCO/DETAILED level. No one seems to really teach that, And the thing is a good portion of guys like myself that come to this community are autists/socially crippled, need shit broken down at micro level.
mystery method the structure is good, but is an outdated method….the content being taught in my opinion is not too good unfortunately is the only method that tell you step by step what to say or do… which in itself make no cool guys weirdos…. But if i were to do it, i can make it work, but i would not recommend it….