This post by a seducer name “zardoc” inspired me to write this post, he is complaining about gurus being full of shit:
They’re all full of shit. They all make mistakes. They all get needy. They all get afc. They all have month long dry streaks. They all get blown out. They all get depressed. They all fall off their wagons whether it’s drugs, alcohol, etc.
This is the formula I use successfully for not having dry streaks, this formula also helps in your seductions (abundance mentality). I can not remember the last time I had a dry streak and I am being super honest (probably in the last 15 years). So what is the secret? I use the same formula I used to use back in the days when I was in corporate america and that is “never quit or get fired without having another job/jobs lined up”.
So how can we translate that to seduction? simple, you get a girl that is fuckable, hopefully not less than your own 6, in your own personal preference of hotness from 6-10. You make her what I call your “main girl/queen”. If you are a decent seducer and you have fucked her at least 3 times really good, hopefully she will become invested (this is key for control). So now you go out and get other women, those other women will become what I call “girls on the side”, this new women will automatically be more attracted and invested in you, since you come across no needy, since you have a main girl.
Now as soon as one of the girls on the side is better than the” main girl/queen” , you replace the “main girl/queen” with the girl on the side GRADUALLY, it has to be a slow process, since the girl on the side needs to be proven on the new role. Once she is proven, you need to get rid of the “main girl/queen”. The beauty is the former main girl will go crazy and act needy, and will let you sleep with her and be a side girl for her fear of loss, usually she will let you do this for about 3 months to a year, depending on her level of attachment.
You can follow this pattern till you find what i call a “game changer” (girlfriend). This will be an unusual girl in her level of personality, hotness and sexual skills that is 1% of the population of woman). At this point is up to your own personal preference to go either poly or mono or whatever.
This will become extremely difficult to execute if you follow methods like “mystery method” were you pretend to be someone you are not. The reason is the girl will be like wtf, this is not the guy I originally liked, this is some other dude. That is why being blunt, who you are, your true personality in your seductions, it is always the best policy.
That s good advice, and I used to rather follow it.
Although often I liked to go “pure” single and have no main girl, because a) i had nt a hot enough girl to be main girl (maybe my bad technique..) and b) if she was very hot, then hanging around would make me more dependent (hard to push yourself to get girls when you have a hot 8 waiting for you at her place…)
Anyway not my question… I have had a.. very.. long dry streak. I moved country, then after having been with girls/ in the game for the past 13/10 years, I got very busy with work (first looking for a job, then starting my company) and kinda of tired with spending time/effort with gals, so that having fun with girls went from a top priority in my life to a Z-priority.. Now that work is going better again, I would like to go get some fun again with girls, but every time I go outthere (mostly clubs, maybe a mistake), I get disappointted. I am not in a city/country famous for its easy girls (maybe that s me making excuses..), but let s face it, I don t have the vibe anymore, and girls can probably feel it.
Question: best way to END a dry streak? (as opposed to best way NOT to ENTER a dry streak LOL)
Hi Skills! Good tips. I might try it once my game has improved. I have some questions about this system though:
1. So you are completely open about the fact that you are fucking other girls at the same time?
2. How do girls react to this?
3. Isn’t it enormously time consuming to game many girls at the same time? I think gaming one girl is already kinda time consuming. I mean, you can’t just go to her house, fuck her, and leave again, right.
4. Do you care about hurting a girl’s feelings btw? This question is a bit off topic. For instance, if you have dated a girl for over a month and you want stop seeing her, because you’ve lost interest.
1. So you are completely open about the fact that you are fucking other girls at the same time? don’t ask/don’t tell policy.
2. How do girls react to this? They don’t like it, but they look the other way.
3. Isn’t it enormously time consuming to game many girls at the same time? I think gaming one girl is already kinda time consuming. I mean, you can’t just go to her house, fuck her, and leave again, right? uhmm no the main you see and do activities with usually for me on sundays, the other ones you fuck them, once or twice a week, to fuck a girl is like 2 hours or less, time managment.
4. Do you care about hurting a girl’s feelings btw? This question is a bit off topic. For instance, if you have dated a girl for over a month and you want stop seeing her, because you’ve lost interest? Of course i do care, but no matter what you do, always someone gets hurt in a relationship, it comes with the territory. Did you see the new article by rev. Lifestyle design, is prett good. This is the scumbag way, some other players have different systems like blackdragon.
Hi Skills, I’ve been trying your system. Not with same success as you because I’m still a relatibely new with game and improving. I have some other questions:
1. How many girls on the side do you have most of the time?
2. what do you do when a fuckbuddy suddenly appears to be in love with you and wants to be your girl friend? this happened to me and it sucked. she was all drama and tears that I didn’t want a serious relationship.
3. do girls get angry when they find out you fuck other girls too? I try as much as possible to keep it secret… I don’t know if this is the right way. I refuse to show my phone to girls for instance.
4. how long does a date with the main girl usually take? Because my main girl is always saying that I should stay as long as possible. “If you really like me you would have stayed longer and blabla”.
1.- it depends on the stage of life i am in, how busy i am etc… it can go from 1 to 5, but always a main. Second, Even if i have 0 i have access to girls that i can call at any given time and get laid.
2.- Unfortunately, that i gonna happen, i have been there, first if is a fuck buddy make it a rule not see her more than 1 a week, max twice, and do not do anything were she may miss understand the relationship. Specially don’t let her sleep over.
3.- you should be discreet don’t ask don’t tell policy, keep your life a mistery, but the subcommunications is that they know you have other women or the ability to get other women. If they get angry is their problem, but yes they do get angry but is a different anger that move her emotions(this is good) create massive attraction.
4.-I have been with main anywhere from 1 to 8 years…
Gus this will take time it took me long time to get good at this… It will come a point that stuff just happens! just keep interacting with women, everything will come together, you have an advantage that i did not have which is a lot of seduction material, i had to learn all this shit by tons of trials and failures.