Hi guys, some of you have asked me for infield footage which I really do not believe in “infield“. But, some girl took a video of me in action and sent it to me. Anyways, a lot of dudes in clubs do what I call “Dancing monkey game” in other words, they dance flashy and have above average dancing skills, but they barely get laid. Some of the reasons are:
1.- They do it for too long.- When you do it for too long you become a “1 trick pony”, so girls will get bored. I called it the “used furniture effect”, they be like ok I saw your amazing moves now what else you got?
2.- Most of these guys expect the girl to “open them” and do all the work. Do not get me wrong, they do get open, but they still have to “GAME” , they can not put all the responsibility on the girl.
3.- They do this dancing monkey shit at the wrong time of the night.- The right time to do dancing monkey game is at the end of the night preferably or at the beginning of the night when the club is the most empty, so you have space to do it. Finally, when they make a circle for people to go in, however, again you want to do it BRIEFLY.
So skills what is the right way to do dancing monkey game? Glad you ask here is how is done and covered in the video:
a.- Do it minimally, maybe 1 or 2 songs.
b.- See what girls are looking, but looking is not enough, focus on the ones that are giving you the “uhmm I want that dude eyes” aka approach invites.
c.- Open them as soon as the opportunity is there, preferably “ups accidentally aka you just happened to be there”.
d.- After reaching the hook point (the point were she prefers to be with you than to leave), micro escalate incrementally, while at the same time you and her are having fun.
e.- If she is giving you compliance isolate, if she is not, rinse wash and repeat. If after 20 minutes compliance, arousal and micro escalation aka her investment not increasing, get her number and go get other women (club time is super important and the most important aspect of club game). Remember the time you are wasting with unreceptive girl is time that you could be using with another more receptive girl.
Now here is an infield were I show all the points made in this blog… Disclaimer.- Unlike my book and most of my advice that forbids approaching from behind, here I make an exception since she gave me the approach invites, it was expected and she knows it was me coming from behind.
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